Thursday, May 20, 2010

Shattered dreams

Have you ever tried something new and you had faith that this was what God wanted you to do with your life?




Maybe you started your own business, or maybe left a job in order to pursue a living using your God given artistic talent.



You took so many risks only to be met by many obstacles. You then began to wonder if you made the right decision.



I know of many people, who went through this, they pursued a dream they had long suppressed... they then reached a dead end, they began to question God and themselves, people began to discourage them in the decision they’d made.



I’ve seen so many people leave a job because the money “aint good” They then moved to a new company or change careers only to be met by a set of new obstacles. They then went back to their previous job or career.



If your motivation for changing your profession is money, trust me, chances are you’ll be changing jobs for the rest of your life.



However pursuing your passion will allow you to carry on your journey even when the storms draw close. You’ll work hard, not because you’re required to, but you’ll do so as you love what you doing. As a result you will be successful because your love, devotion and passion will be evident in the work you produce.



So never give in to temporary obstacles, nothing lasts forever. They’ll be gone tomorrow. Keeping on going, because when you get there it won’t matter how long you took. All that will matter is that you’re there.

Vintage song for May

“Never forget you” by Mariah Carey is the vintage song for May.

Isn’t it crazy how a song can change one’s mood? That’s what this song did to me. When I experienced my very first heart break as a teenager, this is the song I absolutely detested. Reason being is that whenever it used to start playing, in an instant, all the emotions that I’d been trying to bury would all come flooding into my heart again .Hurt, pain and betrayal. But now that I’m a bit older and have control over my emotions, I absolutely love this song.



“ Never forget you” by Mariah Carey

I won't see your smile, And I won't hear you Laugh anymore, Every night I won't see you
Walk through that door 'Cause time wasn't on Your side ,It isn't right , I can't say I love you It's too late to
Tell you But I really need You to know


No, I'll never forget you
I'll never let you out of my heart
You will always be here with me
I'll hold on to the memories baby


Baby can you hear me, Wherever you May be tonight ,Are you near me I need you to be by My side
Cause I never said Goodbye ,It isn't right ,I should have said I love you
Why didn't I just Tell you ,God knows I need You to know


No, I'll never forget you
I'll never let you out of my heart
You will always be here with me
I'll hold on to the memories baby


Somewhere I know you'll be
With me
Someday in another time
But right now you're gone
You just vanished away
But I'll never leave
You behind

No, I'll never forget you
I'll never let you out of my heart
You will always be here with me
I'll hold on to the memories baby

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Breathing Love


When you're in love with some one you  want to be with them every waking moment. However in order for love to grow and flourish, it needs space to breath by itself.

Give the one you love the space to allow them to breath and grow without you by their side. We want to be with them to help them in life, however this disables them and they end up not being able to do things on their own.

Step away, just for a while, get to know yourself, who you are without them. By doing this you're
Giving them time to hear their own air fill up their lungs...give them space to breath.