Monday, August 30, 2010
Thats all there is to it.
I can't change the fact that life can be unfair, I can't change the way people are that they're good at concentrating at other peoples mistakes instead of theirs. However The only thing that I can change is the way I react, never playing the victim, never walking away and always fighting back the best way I know how... Where are prayer warriors at? For this battle is not ours but Gods.
Sunday, August 29, 2010
The fake truth.
I often meet people who seem to be so perfect, then they do something or you find something out about them. It just makes you realise that perfection is an illusion. It's like the people that seem to be perfect are just really good at faking perfection.
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Why I find it hard to let people in.
There was a point in my life where I'd feel so alone & empty when I was single. I hated it so much. However things have changed, I'm so scared to let people in cause I'm so scared that they're gonna take away my peace. I'm really enjoying being me. I dont know how I got to this state of constant joy and peace. Maybe it's my attitude of being grateful for the simple things or it could be that I've learnt not to compare myself but to celebrate my individuality, I have no idea what it is but I know that it's all the works of Jesus Christ. I've experienced so much fear,worry and anxiety in my life time that being here and feeling so safe and at peace seems like a dream.
After some much thought and consideration, I finally let someone into my life. I feel like I have something to learn from them, the way they are and how they live their life is something that could expand me in a way which I can't explain. Im open to just enjoying the ride and seeing where it'll take me.
No worrying or stressing.
After some much thought and consideration, I finally let someone into my life. I feel like I have something to learn from them, the way they are and how they live their life is something that could expand me in a way which I can't explain. Im open to just enjoying the ride and seeing where it'll take me.
No worrying or stressing.
Friday, August 27, 2010
And then what?
People will always be saying mean things bout people behind their backs, its human nature. Either we grow a thick skin, stay strong against their malicious lies or we let our emotions become victims of other peoples lack of maturity. It's hard to stand firm as people throw mud in your face, but thats the only option we all have.
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Twists and turns.
Today I've decided to do nothing cause I have a cold, so I'm gonna nurse myself, gosh I hate being sick...so I'm at home, and being at home alone you have nothing but your thoughts.I'm really just praying that what God has put me in doesn't result in me being dissapointed. The thing is I know God wants the best for me and when this came into my life, he knows as well as I do that I wouldn't have said no, I would seize the opportunity. The timing seemed so right and everything else was all clear. Now certain things are coming up, things that make me wonder if history is about to repeat itself. I can only trust that God has my back and that the truth, whatever it is, will be to my favour and will make my life as bright as it is right now.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Desperation
Im sure all of us have heard this question "Why is it that when I'm single it seems as if no guy or girl wants me but when I'm in a relationship,they're all over me."
Yes that is the old age question which has confused minds for centuries.
I have my own personal theory which answers this question and it's based on my own experiences and observations.
My theory stems from human nature. As humans we reflect our emotions through our body language.
For example when a person is scared their body will show this emotion through the person folding their hands and always looking away or at the floor, when a person is nervous they might bite their nails. The body has many ways of reflecting the internal emotions it's feeling.
When a person is single they become lonelly and as a result they end up being desperate to find someone to end the horrible feeling of loneliness. They desperately seek a partner to end their loneliness.
What they dont realise is that when they go out looking for a partner they might reflect their desperation in the process.
It's like how many animals can tell when a person is scared, the same goes for desperation, it reeks like a dead cat.
You might not realise it but your body is totally giving you away. Maybe it could be the way your eyes are constantly darting around the room, checking for the available men. It could be the way you've decided to dress, in your attempt to draw attention from the opposite sex you've ended up leaving no room for the imagination. This all spells out DESPERATION.
Yes
Desperation shows itself up in many ways and you might not say you're desperate but your body is telling a different story.
No one wants to date a desperate person cause when you're desperate you're indirectly saying that your life is so bad you urgently need someone to save you from your misery.
So you might be wondering how to kill desperation.
If you're a christian, you may seek God cause he does say that we shouldnt worry bout the things of the world, we must seek him and he'll in turn take care of our needs (Matthew 6:25-34).
Also try not be focused on your singleness, don't see it as a time to get a man or lady, use it as a time to focus on you. See it as an opportunity to get to know youself, love yourself and take care of yourself. When you're focused on yourself, you wont look desperate cause you're not constantly on the look out for a man but your focus is simply on you.
Yes that is the old age question which has confused minds for centuries.
I have my own personal theory which answers this question and it's based on my own experiences and observations.
My theory stems from human nature. As humans we reflect our emotions through our body language.
For example when a person is scared their body will show this emotion through the person folding their hands and always looking away or at the floor, when a person is nervous they might bite their nails. The body has many ways of reflecting the internal emotions it's feeling.
When a person is single they become lonelly and as a result they end up being desperate to find someone to end the horrible feeling of loneliness. They desperately seek a partner to end their loneliness.
What they dont realise is that when they go out looking for a partner they might reflect their desperation in the process.
It's like how many animals can tell when a person is scared, the same goes for desperation, it reeks like a dead cat.
You might not realise it but your body is totally giving you away. Maybe it could be the way your eyes are constantly darting around the room, checking for the available men. It could be the way you've decided to dress, in your attempt to draw attention from the opposite sex you've ended up leaving no room for the imagination. This all spells out DESPERATION.
Yes
Desperation shows itself up in many ways and you might not say you're desperate but your body is telling a different story.
No one wants to date a desperate person cause when you're desperate you're indirectly saying that your life is so bad you urgently need someone to save you from your misery.
So you might be wondering how to kill desperation.
If you're a christian, you may seek God cause he does say that we shouldnt worry bout the things of the world, we must seek him and he'll in turn take care of our needs (Matthew 6:25-34).
Also try not be focused on your singleness, don't see it as a time to get a man or lady, use it as a time to focus on you. See it as an opportunity to get to know youself, love yourself and take care of yourself. When you're focused on yourself, you wont look desperate cause you're not constantly on the look out for a man but your focus is simply on you.
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