How could I forget new years?

Its already the 16th of January and I absolutely forgot to write about what happened on new years day. Well my new years eve was crazy,fun and ok I cant find the third word to describe it. Maybe I could say it was a dream come true,yea maybe. Ok let me fill you in on the shananagens that happened. Ok on the 31st of December a friend came to pick me up for lunch at like 1pm. When I came back from lunch I went to where my friends were staying with uaunty wakhe. The plan was to go to Florida then a house party with my friends collegues. We get to florida rd and its empty and raining,shocker. To top the empitness, the clubs were charging a ridiculous price to get in. So then we ended up at the 5fm new years eve bash. which was insanely awesome. Than at like 5am we went to the beach. Oh yes, it was a great night.

Invictus

I watched the movie Invictus two days ago, it's based on the theme of forgiveness and an event that occured in South Africa.I'm a South African and forgiveness has been a theme which has dominated my blog,thats why I've decided to include it in my blog. My dream is for South Africans to unify in building our country into a country which has high morals,wealth and  freedom.

Day of Reconciliation

Today is an important South African holiday. It's called "Day of reconciliation." The new democratic government of post 1994 has made many attempts to unify all the races in South Africa.In the 1900's, post 1994, a truth and reconciliation commission was held as a mechanism to allow the country to forgive each other for all the past hurts. This commission gave people who experienced human rights violation during apartheid the space to reconcile and forgive their perpetrators. The truth and reconciliation commision in South Africa was the first of its kind and now many countries have followed South Africa. My hope on this day is that all South Africans will come together in respecting their cultural divesity and will walk together each day with the spirit of forgiveness residing in their hearts forever.

Okuhle

I saw my friends baby for the first time yesterday. She's so precious. Her name is Okuhle, which means goodness. Wow babies are just amazing. When I have a baby what will her or his name be...It has to have meaning though. Got to go and think...

Forgiveness.

In my early twenties I have come to realise how important it is we forgive each other. We have no other option but to forgive, thats because people are only human so they're going to make mistakes because thats how we learn and once we've learn't from our mistakes we experience growth. As humans we don't understand how imperative it is we forgive because unforgiveness allows regression,hate and regeneration to manifest. One can observe this through whats occured in Zimbabwe. The black Zimbabweans repossessed the farms of white Zimbabweans unlawfully. They're actions were rooted in feelings of revenge and vegeanance against their white country men,for having oppressed them for many years. Revenge and Vegeanance are actions which are brought about unforgiveness. As a result Zimbabwe is now worse of than it was during segregation. As South Africans we contributed to the ill treatement of human rights in Zimbabwe as we didn't do anything to stop this. As Gandhi said, an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.

Helooo world!

Havnt been able to blog, I've been so so so busy. But all in all I've been sweet! What have I learn't bout myself lately? I hate secrets! And hence im bloggn so all can be exposed! Whatelse? Oh there are sweet girls who arent competitive that reside in Durban. Shocker! I know. Oh and that I'm really into tequila! Wtf, i was like the queen bee of teetotalers. Oh well! laaaaaters!

There is no reason.

I just dont think everything happens for a reason. It just happens for the hust of it cos thats how messed up the devil is. I mean what's the reason behind a person dying of starvation in Ethiopia, a kid getting ganged raped...there aint no reason for any of that crap. It happens and there aint no reason for it!